Ten things I wish all new mums knew
1) Looking after yourself is the best way to look after your baby.
2) Resting after birth should be prioritised in whatever way possible.
3) You need your village - accept all help offered and if it isn't offered, ask for it (during pregnancy if possible).
4) You can't force a baby to sleep - spending hours everyday in a dark room patting and shushing, trying to get your baby to sleep is not good for you or your baby.
5) Intuition is learned - seek support from people who encourage you to tap into it, rather than telling you what you "should" be doing with your baby.
6) Feeding to sleep is probably the best tool you've got.
7) For the mums who breastfeed, learning how to feed lying down and safely cosleep with your baby are great ways to get you both more sleep.
8) Having a bath with your baby is a beautiful way both you and your partner can bond with your baby and help settle them.
9) Babywearing is probably the second best parenting tool after feeding to sleep. You won't regret investing in a good baby carrier.
10) YOU MATTER. Good support is vital - both practical and emotional/psychological.
This is just a start - there is so much more I could add!
What do you wish all new mums knew that could help make those newborn days just a little bit easier?
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Thank you so much Katie for sharing this is just beautiful.
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